Now that Christmas Day and Kings Day have passed, dates when children have received their gifts, it's time to make a balance on the toys that Santa Claus and the Magi have brought them.
First, let's talk about the amount. Most of the time they receive more toys than they need, even more than what they had requested in the letter. As much as the child asks for a single gift, the people who give are usually several, and therefore the gifts also multiply.
There are those who prefer that the child receives many toys, but if that is not what we want and we prefer to give one or two gifts that they really value, next year it can be solved by distributing among the family members who gives to each one. This will prevent children from being full of gifts that they don't value, and of course, save money on purchases.
Second, let's talk about toys poorly suited. Frequently, a gift is not suitable for its stage of development. If it is a toy for younger children it will not interest you in the least, while if it is for older children you will not understand it. In this case, it is best to keep it until it reaches the right age. If it is for children, change it or give it to someone who uses it. So that it does not happen again, it is best to advise before buying on the most stimulating toys for each age.
Third, let's talk about practicality. It is very common at this time to have the house crammed with toys that we do not know where to store. Surely, the child does not play with everyone. One suggestion is to make a rotation of toys by saving some for a few days and leaving at hand those with which you play the most. That is what I do at home a little forced by the lack of space. I leave out the newest and every so often, we are changing them.
Finally, let's talk about utility. Or rather, the futility of some gifts. It is very common to receive a toy that is doomed to end up in the bottom of the trunk because it does not match in the least with the preferences of the child or because it is a dish that they do not know how to manipulate. To avoid it, it is advisable to inform yourself about what you like, what your motivations are and not get carried away by toys that are in fashion. When I don't know the child too well, my motto is: "When in doubt, a book".
