Christmas is approaching and with it the dates when the family stays for dinner or lunch are approaching. Celebrations with many people at home, lots of food and a lot of time ahead. You're thinking that, as you have invited your family to your home every year, this year you will have to do it too It is a tradition. However, something tells you that it might not be a good idea, and this year you have a baby at home and you are not sure how it will take to have so many people.
Well, for once, don't think about others too much and allow yourself to be a little selfish. You have always offered your house and your hospitality to have a good time all together, but this year does not have to be this way, if by the fact of bringing you all together your baby can have a bad time and so can you. Come on, that summarizing, this year do not invite anyone, to invite you.
But if people are going to be equally
So by boat it soon seems that things don't change much. Lunch or dinner is celebrated equally, there are the same people, the same noise, the same people will catch the baby, the same jokes will be made and if the baby was going to get nervous at home, at home alien is going to get nervous equally.
Seen on this side it is true that nothing changes. But that is not all. It is not the same to be in the house of someone with many people than being in your house with many people, because when you are in your house you are the host (or the host if we talk about mom), you want everything to be comfortable for everyone and not only do you and your baby, but also to others.
In Babies and more Three tips for your baby to also have a Merry ChristmasThe food, in addition, is not done alone, and although there is always someone who gives you a hand to make it, it is your kitchen, it is your pots, you know where everything is and, you want it not, you end up stuck in the garlic with your hands in the mass. And then, of course, you have to collect everything, and you know that at home, since the baby is there, you have not had enough time and energy left.
It's not the same "go" that "I'm leaving"
But that's not all, and it's not the most important thing. The big difference, what makes the council inescapable, what gives you maximum freedom and total autonomy is that being invited you can leave when you feel like it. If you ride a meal or a dinner and the child gets on his nerves, for whatever reason, you can't walk telling people to leave (well, yes you can, but go brown ...).
If instead you are in someone else's house and it happens, you can take the child, your partner and the bárulos, once you have eaten or eaten dinner, I understand, and omit the eternal desktop in which the same things of each year will be explained (if you are at home, everything you and your brothers did when you were little and if you are at your partner's house, everything he and his brothers did when they were little), apologizing for, already in "loneliness" of the road and then at home, take care of the baby with peace of mind, wishing that night does not return you in the form of tears and bad sleep having been in a place with so many people and so much noise.
