There is less and less for Mother's Day to arrive and following the initiative we started a few days ago with the Special Moms bloggers Today we are going to interview another great mom.
It is one of the bloggers that has made a quicker place among us. Two years ago, on the last day of February, Desmadreando was born and his "desmadre" has spread rapidly through the networks. She doesn't like her name, according to her, for being very normal, so we'll call her Mrs. Desmadres, and as immeasurable as it may be, a lady is a lady and age stays for the dark side of the passport. Of course, his birthday is in summer, in case anyone wants to send a little detail. Married for eight years with whom he has the honor of being the father of his two "beasts", Critter the little "tirana" of 3 years and Kraken the captain who drives his ship and his unveiled almost two months. The family completes a hairy beast, yes, four-legged called Torro (if the name has its history but let's let my Westy name like that for Guape-torro and not for a bet that I wouldn't call him that).
As a publicist profession, although we can say that she works as a mother blogger, let them hear, it's all a job! and he would also like to be able to put that on business cards. Thus it would be recognized that the work of a mother deserves a title with capital letters and that of a blogger would be taken beyond a hobby.
Addicted to coca cola, chocolate in any version and ads. According to her, it is one of the few people who does not separate from the television and who prefers to go to the bathroom or snack during the program.
I am excited to see how detergents remove those stains that I simply do not go away as much as scrubbing, as certain products make you go to the bathroom and return you peace of mind and as hemorrhoidal creams no matter how much you want to sell them in style the ads remain " of ass "He loves to go to the supermarket, that's without lists! He likes to be surprised to see that he buys everything but what he needs and gets carried away by cravings.
We start with the interview
What led you to catch a day and open a blog?
Children change your life. Time ceases to exist, you stop being able to go to the bathroom with the door closed and stop eating hot. However, my mother had always told me that it was the most wonderful thing that can happen to you in life. Do not take it badly, it is so, but my mother forgot certain details such as the alienation of changing 24 hrs diapers, how tired it is an hour of colic at four in the morning and that sex happens to be "silent" so as not to wake the children. Let's say "the dark side of the force" nobody tells you. Several friends stayed pregnant at the same time and one of them published in his book a blog post that talked about motherhood but from the "real" side and with humor. From there I discovered that about blogroll and I jumped from blog to blog and got hooked. One crazy day I said, I'm going to open a blog! It would serve me as therapy, it would help me to put that community manager diploma into practice and it would help me to know what to do but to lose heart. My blog is not one of those blogs that are to inherit my children. It is my space, it is my blog. They will already complain about me in their blog journals or whatever there is when they are púberes. Why can't mothers complain about a tad?
What has the blog brought to Mrs. Desmadres?
Curiously, it has given me much more than I thought. It has allowed me to reactivate my professional neuron through motherhood. Who was going to tell me that I would advertise but products for minibestias? Who was going to tell me that something I've always liked to do that is writing would become a "job"? but above all, who was going to tell me that I would end up meeting "virtual" people who become real friends? That is the craziest of all!
We know you as the desmadre, the desmadrosa, pelirosa, etc. Everything you touch ends in a crazy riot, but in what facets of your life as a mother do you leave the riot aside and mexi becomes serious?
Rash can be my alter ego. Let's say it's my Dr. Jekyll's Hyde from day to day. Being a mother means getting "serious", educating some meat and bone balls to be good people and that is a huge challenge! So you just nonsense if we don't go crazy!
Your birth, well, it should be said to be exact, your pre-delivery was transmitted by social networks. In my case I followed him on twitter which final of the European Championship. Do you think you missed a little or the next will do it via streaming?
Let's see, everything has a reason ... It all starts with Critter (the cause of all the initial chaos). My sister came to Spain at her birth but it turns out that the girl decided to beg and even though she was supposed to be induced because she was a childbirth because in Security they opted because there "God is not induced" and my father Beast decided to be born almost at week 42 just one day after my sister returned to Mexico! So, as at that time, the favorite and most used network was Facebook, I was able to tell, thanks to those Zuckerbergian questions about how you are and what you think (worthy of a philosophy treaty), my status during the whole birth and putting the picture Critter newborn for all my family and my friends (at that time the whatsapp was not used so much that things right? Just finished my CM diploma and my Uned compis laughed a lot that I had transmitted my delivery for Facebook When they found out that I was pregnant again they challenged me to do it live and live on twitter and I promised them that if I was in the mood I would do it If you know well I only wrote 8 twits but hey on the net there are many unruly people loose with skewers and combs that mounted a hashtang, bets and the rest ... the rest already knows what it was The next one Oh let me forget this postpartum, three mastitis and then I'll tell you about the next one!
Every future mother should be able to live: not to be alone, to enjoy childbirth with your partner, not to be branded as crazy and exaggerated first time, to be treated with respect and care and SKIN SKIN!
You made 400 km to have a respected birth. What do you think every future mom should demand when she brings her son to this world?
Curious. This was initially raised because I thought that Social Security had not done things quite well when Critter was born. And there I went to Madrid to discover that although there are things that the WHO does not recommend such as the Kristeller maneuver or that the sucker can have its risks, the truth is that in my two births I could have the experience of vaginal births and rid myself of caesarean sections I realized that despite having death hips (the self-timer does not work?) I am narrow (the riot is narrow hahaha ironies of life) and my beasts are very large so I present a gynecological complication called shoulder diastosis where babies do not turn when leaving and of course the show begins. With Critter there was no delicacy, personalized treatment, being able to live the birth with my husband. It was suddenly, it was only because Semenator did not enter because it was instrumental delivery, it was a "we give you a bid to take it out or we make you a Caesarean section", it was to see it born and that it will be taken ... it was sadly "cold". I lived it with Kraken! and if I am sincere that is what every future mother should be able to live: not to be alone, enjoy childbirth with your partner, not to be branded as crazy and exaggerated first time, to be treated with respect and care and SKIN! SKIN! That madness that I lived with Kraken newborn full of blood on top of me is the most crazy and beautiful instinctive and animal riot I have ever lived.
One question I usually ask myself and I know that there are others who also ask it is, how long to continue with a maternity blog. When will it end up unraveling? Will we continue telling stories of our grandchildren?
Just the other day I thought about it ... I know that some of our partners have decided to close their blogs for x or for reasons and has given me a bit of sadness but I imagine that everything "comes to an end." Not because I have to close the riot if not because there will come a time when you have to "evolve." It's like life itself. I am fortunate to be able to work from home and not miss a moment of my beasts: the first babble, the first crawl, the first bronchopneumonia ... but when the beasts are pubertas, where is one left? Touch evolve and ride something with the time you have left free! So do not worry that some sarao will ride: P Don't get rid of me so easily!
Thank you very much Ms. Desmadres for being so kind in responding to the interview and sharing it with everyone at the Special Moms bloggers on the occasion of Mother's Day.
