On some occasions we have been able to witness the palette of a child, this is not abnormal, they are stages and in most cases, children seek to be the center of attention. But this is a small setback, if they get attention through blackmail, it will be a small problem. When a child gets what he wants through a palette, a world of possibilities opens up to get what he wants.
From 18 months to three years is when the stage of scandalous tantrums or lollipops are fully developed, because the child experiences his independence process with fury. You need to prove your will and reaffirm your personality.
He needs to manifest his presence in the world, his individuality and through denial, he seeks to consolidate his conscience. That is why it is the ideal period to talk about limits and teach two very important words that will help us all, thank you and please. We must arm ourselves with patience and teach him properly. Psychologists warn of this danger, yield to the blackmail of a lollipop the child reinforces the idea that to get something, just cry and scream in response to the no of mom or dad. For this reason it must be shown to the child that he does not dominate the situation and that the last word and the decision about what he wants, whenever it is for the good of the child, is taken by the parents.
You should not pay attention to a palette, we must ignore it and try to avoid, that is, we must not give any explanation or try to calm it. Nor should you threaten or shout at him and much less hit him, what if you have to tell him, is that he will not be treated until he stops that behavior and calms down, giving in to him is giving rise to new and numerous lollipops.
Palette is a behavior that practically all children have used and depending on how parents act, these lollipops end up disappearing, since they realize that they are of no use and that in short, those who have a bad time are them .
